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[May. 5th, 2008|09:34 pm]
Single? Want to complain about it?

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 So here I am. Over a year of being single and now my sex drive kicks back in. I tried to kill it for some time and I just wanted to live my life for me. But it is not just my sex drive that is getting to me...I am also feeling very lonely lately. I just am craving someone I can tell everything to and be affectionate with again, I want that wonderful trusting relationship and that so safe feeling you get with someone you truely love. I am not one for casual sex or one night stands and my social anxiety tends to make it quite hard to meet new people....So I feel trapped right now. Ugh.
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[User Picture]From: lonerchick_21
2008-05-07 07:24 am (UTC)
I'm not up 4 casual sex or one night stands, but it seems to be the only way 4 me so far.
Lindsey
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[User Picture]From: greygen
2008-05-07 12:16 pm (UTC)
*hugs* It can be hard D:
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From: momorite
2008-05-31 01:13 pm (UTC)

Hang in there buddy...

Hey, don't be so sad. Life is good overall. You are a sensitive soul, and that's why you want a partner. Be grateful that you are not a reckless airhead who just wants a physical connection to someone. You are special, and there will be someone out there for you.

I have noticed that some guys send out negative vibes when they are upset about being single. Chicks seem to want guys they can't get, so maybe you need to act a little bit - act as though you are not looking for a partner. Be interested in what other people are doing - focus attention on the chick by asking questions about her - they love that! And relax, there is certainly "panic radar" that is easily detected by females. You will instantly forget about these feelings when you meet someone interesting. Good luck my friend. Momo
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